Practical Checklist for Preparing Your Dog’s Passing

When the time comes to say goodbye to your dog, the emotions can feel overwhelming. Having a plan in place can bring steadiness and help you feel more present. Use this checklist as a guide to help you prepare both practically and emotionally.

1. Veterinary Support

• Speak with your vet about palliative care and pain management

• Ask about options: at-home passing or clinic-based

• Discuss sedation and euthanasia processes so you know what to expect

• Gather contact details for emergency or out-of-hours support

2. Environment & Comfort

• Choose a calm, familiar place for them to rest

• Surround them with their favourite blanket, bed, or toy

• Keep food and water close if they still wish to eat or drink

• Consider music, candles, or soft lighting to create a peaceful atmosphere

• Limit visitors or activity that may overstimulate them

3. Emotional Presence

• Spend quiet time sitting or lying beside them

• Offer gentle touch, Reiki, or energy-based comfort if this feels right

• Speak softly and from the heart, reassuring them they are loved and safe

• Let them guide you in how much closeness or space they need

4. Final Day Planning

• Create a simple “last day” if time allows (favourite meal, gentle walk, special treat)

• Capture memories if you wish

• Invite family or close friends who wish to say goodbye

• Prepare children gently and involve them in the process if they wish to be

5. Rituals & Goodbyes

• Tell them what they mean to you and thank them for their life with you

• Consider a candle lighting, prayer, or moment of silence before or after passing

• If you wish you can prepare keepsakes: a paw print, clipping of fur, collar, or photos

• Create a goodbye letter or poem to read aloud if this feels comforting, and let others say goodbye in their way too

6. Aftercare Decisions

• Choose between cremation, burial, or other memorial options in advance

• Research local crematorium, cemeteries, or home burial guidelines

• Decide if you’d like to be present during cremation or receive ashes back

• Consider keepsakes such as urns, ashes jewellery, or memory boxes

7. Support for Yourself

• Arrange a trusted friend or family member to be with you if needed

• Schedule time off work or commitments to grieve without pressure

• Have details of a grief counsellor, pet loss support group, or hotline ready

• Plan small, grounding rituals for the days after (walks, journaling, mindfulness)

Remember: there is no perfect way to prepare. This list is a guide, not a prescription. Choose what feels right for you and your dog, and trust that your love is enough.